ANDY GETS IN THE PICTURE

from	andy blackman hurwitz <andy@ropeadope.com>
to		Heather Murphy Monteith <heather@babylovesdisco.com>
cc		"Vernon Balmer Jr." <fnitts@gmail.com>
date		Tue, Jul 22, 2008 at 3:58 AM
subject		Re: Baby Doesn't Know What Disco Is.

where di this all come from? 

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andy blackman hurwitz

andy@ropeadope.com

http://www.ropeadope.com 

BABY DOESN'T KNOW WHAT DISCO IS

fromVernon Balmer Jr. <f-----@gmail.com>
toHeather Murphy Monteith <heather@babylovesdisco.com>

dateTue, Jul 22, 2008 at 10:41 AM
subjectRe: Baby Doesn't Know What Disco Is.
mailed-bygmail.com

 7/22/08

Thanks for responding. Time will tell, maybe. All the information I got was from an article about your "group", from those involved. I would caution you that, a lot of  "experiments" that started out as such, turned into organized debauchery. Granted, segregation can be detrimental, but I doubt that any caring parents would have their children at a party supervised by other children. What I am concerned about is in my first email, specifically, children partying with adults.  Also, once a homegrown idea is commercialized, being far removed from the originator and it's original, heartfelt and sincere intent, it is easily perverted. By then, the network is in place, to expand.

Thanks for your wish that I keep breathing.

 

Keep thinking of our children. Some villages weren't so kind to them.

 

 

On 7/21/08,

Heather Murphy Monteith <heather@babylovesdisco.com> wrote:

Are you thinking for yourself?  Really?  Or jumping on a soapbox about something you "heard" about -third hand?  (Oooops.  Don't slip!)

So..  Let's be civilized here....

Good evening, Mr. Balmer, and thank you for reaching out.  My name is Heather Murphy Monteith and I am the founder of Baby Loves Disco.  I am a scorpio, a vegetarian and i don't squish spiders... and Oh!  right, ...I am also a mom of two lovely children that i give my absolute all to... It's because of them that i started a pretty great family event and folks around the world really love it!  Also, this has been a labor of love for 4 years now and no, i have not made a penny doing this, though we do support our non profit of choice, Alex's Lemonade Stand, which fights childhood cancers.....

Honestly,  it is  sad to read your response and reaction to Baby Loves Disco and I actually am not sure of your disgust and exact concerns.  Have you ever been to an event?  Did you take in the WHOLE picture of what Baby Loves Disco is?  I do think that Baby Loves Disco, as a concept, is something that as a concept may be hard for some folks to understand, at first, but as an event, folks experiencing it only have rave reviews.  I would like to respond to you and add just a few comments and some more information.  First of all, I believe in the African proverb which states: "It takes a village to raise a child".  My inspiration for creating Baby Loves Disco is the desire to create a community event with a kid-centered, yet "real life" perspective...  I feel very strongly that a major fault in American culture is the tendency towards separating "types" of people:  rich from poor, black from white and young from old. A major talent of American culture is the ability to create a whole lot of specific events and environments to satisfy each group.  As you know, the typical child events stretch from the "Chucky Cheese" experience to the local Zoo, museums and of course, Gymboree. I have to say that my son takes away some fun from these experiences but with an amount of dumbed-down perspective and  commercialism that I find offensive.  (Our Zoo is sponsored by a car manufacturer and a local junk food chain.)  "Disney" seems to creep into anything that involves children and the "made to order" environments imply a world that serves too easily to the limited attention span.  What can you do? We go to these places and events a handful of times per year, but in the end our children are exposed to and learn more from everyday life and the rituals that we, as parents and as teachers, share with them.  Baby Loves Disco is an urban experiment  and experience that challenges many norms.  We have grandparents in attendance... some families have two moms or are single-parent families...  there are corporate moms employed by "Clear Channel" and there are young, pierced and tatooed, dads...  there are dark and light and cafe au lait  babies, some are adopted and others are with their nannies... Baby Loves Disco serves as a meeting ground for parents, friends, family and caregivers of young children- a place to chat and be social while dancing with the little ones... or to read a book to a toddler in the "chill-out room"..... or nurse an infant in a public place that embraces and celebrates the intimate act of feeding ones child.  This event serves the priorities of the family and its village- refusing to separate these concerns of parent vs. child and refusing to accept that parenting is an isolated experience- while striving to create a resonant experience for all in the sprit of sharing music and dance.  As humans we are only a sum of our experiences and memories. Baby Loves Disco embraces an urban culture of parenting that remembers and celebrates our histories as people and shares  them with our children in a safe and fun way...  Aren't we lucky?  The decible level is around 75dbl and the music played is mostly classic disco... plus lots of rare 80's and some contemporary, clean, hits.  The bubble maching is a crowd favorite as are the egg shakers and scarves...  The kid's fare is a plethora of gourmet and mostly organic snacks and juice boxes.  I invite you to come see for yourself (if you have a kid that is, only folks attached to one are admitted)...but come early because we do sell-out when the dance floor gets tight.  Max and Isa and I like our "Little People's" music class every Thursday morning but we really have a blast and love dancing with our friends at Baby Loves Disco.  Oh, and yes, not to forget...   the bar is indeed open for non driving parents, and yes, parents can choose to have a beer or wine- though most don't- and those that do act responsibly and enjoy sipping on their one, adult drink without guilt.  We've never had an issue with this. ... but remember this is a FAMILY event and folks are here to be comfortable like at a family picnic or baseball game  and based on the reports form the venues,  the bar sales are mostly comprised of diet coke....  Sorry to disappoint you here, as i think that was your strongest argument against the whole idea, correct?

 Inhale , Exhale and have a great night!

 Heather

 Heather Murphy Monteith, founder
 BABY LOVES DISCO, LLC
 www.babylovesdisco.com


On Jul 21, 2008, at 5:17 PM

Vernon Balmer Jr. wrote:
Another gimmick to take peoples money and use children to do it, without thinking about the effects.

 

SPOOKY !

-----Original Message-----

From: Ch---l  <c---sh@omsoft.com>

To: y-----@aol.com

Sent: Fri, 26 Jan 2007 8:02 pm

Subject: Re: Internal Transmitters

The below may be of help. I just don't follow the dental implant cases. Apologies and best of luck, Cheryl

----- Original Message -----

From: y-----@aol.com

To: c---sh@omsoft.com

Sent: Thursday, January 18, 2007 3:12 PM

Subject: Re: Internal Transmitters

I ran across your email address while researching "internal transmitters". Can you tell me where online I may obtain more information about this? Especially, as it might pertain to dental implants.

THEN, WHAT WERE THEY DOING?

RE: Health Issues Included‏

 

12/13/06

To Vernon Balmer

From:	OS OCR Complaint (HHS/OS) (OCRComplaint@hhs.gov)
Sent:	Wed 12/13/06 10:23 AM
To:	Vernon Balmer (v----_@hotmail.com)

Thank you for your email to the Office for Civil Rights

(OCR) Complaint Mailbox. OCR is responsible for 

enforcing a variety of Federal civil rights laws that 

prohibit discrimination, as well as a Federal law 

protecting the privacy of individuals health information. 

Regrettably, the matters you raise in your email are not

within our jurisdiction. We are unable to provide you with assistance. You should contact the following office of the U.S. Department of Justice (www.usdoj.gov) for assistance.
 
To learn more about civil rights and your rights under the rules
protecting the privacy of medical records, please visit our website at

 www.hhs.gov/ocr/.@

YES THEY DID

2004 Compliant‏ 

From:	Vernon Balmer (v----_@hotmail.com)
Sent:	Fri 9/28/07 9:13 AM
To:	Jensen, Michael (HHS/OCR) (michael.jensen@hhs.gov)

It wasn't under privacy, but discrimination. I doubt if all I have gone through here in Hawaii can be defined as coincidence or fluke. There is definietly a pattern.

From:	Jensen, Michael (HHS/OCR) (Michael.Jensen@HHS.GOV)
Sent:	Thu 9/27/07 10:25 AM
To:	Vernon Balmer (v----_@hotmail.com)

Mr. Balmer,

Our data base doesn't show anything in 2003 either. It only goes back to April of 2003 when the Privacy Rule was implemented. If you filed it after April 2003 with OCR you may want to contact our SF office.

From:	Vernon Balmer (v----_@hotmail.com)
Sent:	Thu 9/27/07 9:13 AM
To:	michael.jensen@hhs.gov

Sorry, it would have been 2003. I just got partial records for service at Hawaii Family Dental, and by the dates of service it must have been 2003. The Center Supervisor is compiling all records including billing and says they have found my first set of x - rays, misfiled. Would you please check 2003.

 

From: Jensen, Michael (HHS/OCR) Sent: Thursday, September 27, 2007 6:40 AM To: 'vbalm@hotmail.com' Subject: 2004 Compliant Mr. Balmer, You should call our San Francisco office at 1-800-368-1019 and as To vbalm_@hotmail.com

From:	Jensen, Michael (HHS/OCR) (Michael.Jensen@HHS.GOV)
Sent:	Thu 9/27/07 4:07 AM
To:	v----_@hotmail.com

 

From: Jensen, Michael (HHS/OCR)
Sent: Thursday, September 27, 2007 6:40 AM
To: v----@hotmail.com'
Subject: 2004 Compliant

Mr. Balmer,

You should call our San Francisco office at 1-800-368-1019 and ask them about it. That 2004 complaint would have been filed with them. I have checked our nationwide data base for cases and it doesn't show a complaint filed by you in 2004.

Michael Jensen

EOS/Investigator

US DHHS/OCR

 

CComplaint‏

OS OCR Mail (HHS/OS)

OS OCR Mail (HHS/OS)

OCRMail@hhs.gov

 

You may wish to contact the Seattle Regional Office at 206-615-2290 for assistance with your complaint.

To Vernon Balmer

From:	OS OCR Mail (HHS/OS) (OCRMail@hhs.gov)
Sent:	Thu 9/27/07 1:54 AM
To:	Vernon Balmer (v----_@hotmail.com)

You may wish to contact the Seattle Regional Office at 206-615-2290 for assistance with your complaint.

 

sending a form they requested I fill out and never h

To ocrcomplaint@hhs.gov, ocrmail@hhs.gov

From:	Vernon Balmer (v----_@hotmail.com)
Sent:	Tue 9/25/07 12:10 PM
To:	ocrcomplaint@hhs.gov; ocrmail@hhs.gov

 

Can you tell me how I can learn the outcome of a complaint I submitted in 2004 to HHS, about a dental office loosing my ex - rays? I remembering sending a form they requested I fill out and never heard from them again. Both root canals have since deteriorated and I have altogether lost one tooth. One dentist who worked on one of the teeth I found had a complaint about his work. I don't know about the system here, but now there is no record of that action. I recently got my records from the dental office and they still have not located the ex - rays.

 

 

Vernon Balmer Jr.

401 Atkinson DR 211

Honolulu, Hawaii  96814

 

 

 

ACLU

-----Original Message-----

 

From: The Office of the ACLU of Hawai'i <office@acluhawaii.org>

To: Y-----@aol.com

Sent: Wed, Feb 9, 2005 1:12 pm

Subject: Re: Needing Assistance:

 

Please send your complaint to P.O. Box 3410, Honolulu, Hawai'i 96801.  We do not 

have the staff to respond to requests via email.  Our legal director will review 

and respond back to you.  Keep in mind that the ACLU deals in civil rights 

matters when it is the government who is in violation and not usually with 

private entities.  Thank you for contacting the ACLU of Hawai'i.

 

Mary Donohoe

Assistant to the Executive Director

HOW HIGH

at 2:50 PM
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Re: Join Us in Washington, D.C. and Stand Up to the Abuse of Power

 

-----Original Message-----
From: y-----@aol.com
To:
Sent: Wed, Aug 30, 2006 10:42 am
Subject: Re: Join Us in Washington, D.C. and Stand Up to the Abuse of Power

 
More important to me is what the ACLU doesn't do.

GONE FISHIN'

Vernon Balmer Jr.

-----Original Message-----
From: ASKDOJ <ASKDOJ@usdoj.gov>
To: t-----@aol.com
Sent: Thu, Jun 15, 2006 2:29 pm
Subject: Out of Office AutoReply:

I will be out of the office Friday 17.

THE POWER

Attached Message

From:	Y-----@aol.com
To:	cynthia.yamasaki@tghawaii.com
Subject:
Date:	Tue, 25 May 2004 1:17 PM

May 25, 2004   Cynthia, during this time of turmoil, 

many things go unnoticed by me. Many occasions when 

things are said or done that may have bearing on  

future events.  At the time of the occurrence, we may 

choose to ignore something  said by others.  But 

consequent developments bring back these previously 

ignored  statements. If you are intent on doing a 

thorough investigation, you may want to  inquire about 

something I heard Sunshine say to Renee, previous to 

the two  harassment charges submitted, concerning me.  

It is not my desire to read  something malicious into 

every statement made by a co-worker, but having been  

put on the defensive, I can only conclude that her 

statement may have some  bearing on the current 

situation.  On or about the 8th of May, while Sunshine  

was apparently retrieving a folder near Renee, I 

believe I heard her say, "  We're going to show him the 

power of pu--y." People who would say such things so  

blatantly, I'm sure, will not be forthcoming with an 

admission, but I thought I  should inform you of this. 

18 USC 241 and 242, SHIRA

Finally, an answer. The additional information spoken of here, was  very minimal and not requested. Nothing that would require me to substantiate allegations or suspicions. No one has asked for evidence, substantiation and/or corroboration. Can you say, investigation?

Wouldn't it be nice if they could get it all, in an email. Less work, mo money, mo money!
 

-----Original Message-----
From: Division, Criminal <Criminal.Division@usdoj.gov>
To: yinsay@aol.com
Sent: Tue, Oct 20, 2009 5:22 am
Subject: RE: CRIMES

This is in response to your most recent e-mail 

addressed to the Criminal Division. 

Even with the additional information you have 

provided with your current letter, 

this matter still does not appear to fall 

within federal jurisdiction. As a result, 

any future correspondence with this office 

regarding this same matter would be 

unnecessary. We regret we cannot be of 

further assistance.     

 ________________________________   

Sent in response to there being no answer 

From: y-----@aol.com

Sent: Thu 8/20/2009 7:21 PM  

To: Criminal.Correspondence@usdoj.gov; 

Subject: CRIMES      

VERNON BALMER JR.  

GENERAL DELIVERY  HONOLULU, HAWAII  96820     

-----Original Message----- No answer

From: To: Criminal.Correspondence@usdoj.govmailto:y-----@aol.comTo

Sent: Tue, Apr 7, 2009 11:53 am
Subject: Re: civil rights complaint

The USDOJ should have been receiving my 

complaints for the past five years. Due

to the Conspiracy To Violate Civil Rights, 

Obstruct Justice, and Harassment I have 

faced here in Hawaii, I can only be reached at: 

General Delivery Honolulu, Hawaii 96820. 

Although I have suspicions that the state and 

other entities and individuals have been monitoring 

my use of computers, here at the Hawaii State 

Library, I would like copies of correspondence 

sent to my email address. I believe I have seen 

employees here in Honolulu, but I doubt that 

they have been here to help me, considering what 

I have found. I would also like to know who I am 

corresponding with. Surely, you have a last name 

and a title. 

Criminal.Correspondence@usdoj.gov>
To: y-----@aol.com
Sent: Tue, 7 Apr 2009 6:20 am
Subject: civil rights complaint

Dear Mr. Balmer,

The Criminal Section of the Civil Rights Division of the
Department of Justice received an e-mailed complaint from you on April 4, 2009.  Please send us your mailing address so that we can respond.


Sincerely,
 

Vernon Balmer Jr. 
 
 -----Original Message----- 
From: Correspondence, Criminal (CRT)

Shira 

Criminal Section  Civil Rights Division 
Department of Justice 

(202) 514-3204 

WHAT CAN I SAY ?

-----Original Message-----
From: y-----@aol.com
To: ed.case@mail.house.gov
Sent: Wed, Aug 30, 2006 10:48 am
Subject: A Conspiracy To Deny Civil Rights, Seeking Representation In The Iron Triangle

 

 

 

-----Original Message-----
From: y-----@aol.com

To: Neil.Abercrombie@mail.house.gov
Sent: Tue, Nov 22, 2005 3:48 pm
Subject: Abuse of Power: Does anyone in Hawaii do their job?

 

 

 

A Conspiracy To Violate Civil Rights, Obstruct Justice And Harass
From:	y-----@aol.com
To:	president@whitehouse.gov
Date:	Wed, Apr 15, 2009 10:50 am

 

 

 

The 4th Amendment to the Constitution
From:	y-----@aol.com
To:	mayor@honolulu.gov
Date:	Tue, Aug 18, 2009 11:04 am

Why there is a shopping cart on the lawn of the State Library.

 

 

 

 

Fwd: Abuse of Power
From:	y-----@aol.com
To:	senator@akaka.senate.gov
Date:	Tue, Nov 29, 2005 11:49 am

 

ANOTHER CREEPY ONE

Instead of pasting the email I converted to JPEG
And highlites are created with editor.

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From: Chrystal <electrocutes@bersin.nl>
Date: 2010/3/5
Subject:
To: f-----@gmail.com

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WOULDA HELPED, WHAT?

The first time I saw a company file was months later,

when I bought a copy of the EEOC docs.

-----Original Message-----

From: Cynthia Yamasaki <cynthia.yamasaki@TGHAWAII.com>
To: T-----@aol.com
Cc: Pearla Kouchi <pkouchi@TGHAWAII.com>
Sent: Fri, Jun 25, 2004 9:01 am
Subject: RE: Personnel File:

Vernon:

Thank you for your request.  As I discussed with you on June 21,2004,
all personnel files are considered to be company property.  Therefore,
we are unable to provide you with a copy of the your personnel file.

Thank you,

Cynthia Yamasaki
Vice President, Human Resources
Title Guaranty
(808) 539-7722
Cell:  221-2828    Fax:  532-3162
Email: cynthia.yamasaki@tghawaii.com
Visit our Website!  www.tghawaii.com

-----Original Message-----
From: T-----@aol.com
Sent: Wednesday, June 16, 2004 2:06 PM
To: Cynthia Yamasaki
Subject: Personnel File:

I previosly asked Pearla for a copy of my file, with no response from
her. I am now requesting you to send it, or at least a response, with an
explanation.

                             Vernon Balmer Jr.
                             P.O. Box 255
                             Honolulu, Hawaii  96809

DISCLAIMER:  This message is only intended for the addressee named above.  Its contents may be confidential, privileged or otherwise protected.  Any unauthorized use, disclosure or copying of this message or its contents is prohibited. If you are not the intended recipient, (i) please do not read or disclose it to others, (ii) please notify the sender by reply e-mail or phone, and (iii) please delete this communication from your system. Any personal opinions expressed in this message do not necessarily represent the views of Title Guaranty.

 

 

Attached Message

From:	Y-----@aol.com
To:	pkouchi@tghawaii.com
Subject:	Personnel File
Date:	Fri, 28 May 2004 10:59 AM

May 28, 2004  Perla, please send a of my file to P.O. Box 255 

Honolulu Hawaii  96809.  Sincerely,                                    

Vernon Balmer Jr.